had a strange dream last night

I was working in a place where they store fuel of some sort. A tank lorry came to fill the underground storage up but a colleague drove one of those small pallet trucks and ran the metal thing over that holds the pipe in place. So all the fuel ran all over the place and it looked like it would go up in flames.
I left the place on a bike and drove down a  6 lane avenue. I saw skyscrapers at the horizon with all lights on as it was dark. But the lights started to flash. I was waiting at a big crossing and only the cars from the right got the green light. Everyone else had to wait but suddenly all the other cars started to go as well. I was on the wrong side so I had to cross over which worked out fine but at the next crossing the lights were out and the skyscrapers lights went out as well. My family were calling and I told them I would go to work and afterwards stay with a childhood friend who lived close by.dream symbols: fuel – a form of energy you need, fuel might easily burn so be careful what you use it for, it also stands for motivation you need
traffic lights switched off – situation will become better
traffic lights red – warning
light/electricity being out – lack of insight
street – your life’s journey
bike – being a happy, nature loving person
to drive/ride yourself – you change your situation

I read a lot more explanations for these symbols and what comes to mind is that I have to take more care of myself and my energies. I feel like I need a break any way but do not know how to get it.
But I also ride myself, take my life into my own hands and as in the dream manage through a difficult situation to get onto the right track

had a strange dream last night…. attention might trigger

…. I was in a dark room with an eating table. I sat on one side a man sat on the other. I could see a door at the other side of the room. It showed a light sitting room. The man tried to touch and kiss me but I stood up said “NO!” and left.

The room and the man were strangely familiar even though I couldn’t recognise it.
I wonder if this dream means that I start saying “no” to being a victim.

I started counselling two weeks ago. The organisation I went to is a charity and at first I though “great they are doing a good job.” But there was always that nagging little voice in the back of my mind that warned me. I was there twice but felt pressured to talk about things I didn’t want to talk about and also to come to them even though the weather was really tough around here and it was dangerous to drive (would have been around 23 miles) so I cancelled the whole thing. That might have triggered the dream.